There is one listens, others we prefer not to hear, others found obvious. But if one collects tips where one day someone from writing or cosmonauts exclaimed "ah, this is not wrong," then we have that. Some call you?
Tips for living well ... his love story
"If a man told you he is not ready to commit is that it is not ready to commit."
And instead of thinking that will convince him to change his mind, we can thank him for having had the courtesy to inform us and give us the opportunity to move to another who would not at this stage .
"Of course you can pretend to share his passions."
But a day will come where either it will necessarily be as paragliding, we are experiencing nothing, or we will flush and tired to get excited at the idea of a great weekend paragliding.
"That does not prevent you to interest you in what he likes."
And ask him what it was like paragliding.
"It's not because we fight we do not like to."
A question that sometimes arises at the first shouting match ...
"A couple, it is not never argue, is knowing recover."
Although not always the same that gives to another.
"A man, not a girlfriend."
It does not address the same issues, we do not do the same things with a boyfriend and a girlfriend.
"We are not obliged to do everything together!"
We can deeply love someone and be very happy to have the bathroom at home. Sometimes the apartment.
"Tell her you love her."
A man also needs to be reassured.
"If you want to heal people, make doctor or nurse."
A man is a partner. Not a child nor a great hurt.
"He loves to see you in heels? Get out your heels! "
It's just for one evening, not to go shopping this week
at the hypermarket.
"Do not listen to what he says, look at what he does."
A man who says, "Yes, yes I can" and that is not there, or that says "I love you" and is still not separated from his ex, it inspires confidence moderately. Conversely, if this great taciturn is always there for us and offers us a gift mentioned it six months ago, passing a shop window, so ...
"If it's only you who make living the relationship, not a relationship."
What is it then ? A fantasy. Or a sacrifice.
"You have the right to tell him that you feel that you're the one to live the relationship."
And, if completely agree with that and he does not see where the problem is, then it's time for someone who will want him to put his.
"There's more than one way to love."
And not just a house, a wagon, a dog and three children.
"We do not have to suffer for love."
The ups, downs and the ravages of passion, it makes good movies or even various facts-but to live every day, it's just exhausting. So ask the question: by putting on the roller coaster of emotions, what is one to which we avoid thinking?
Tips to start his love life ...
"Get dressed and get out!"
Admittedly, it greatly increases the opportunities to meet, compared to staying on the sofa in front of "House MD".
"Get dressed and come out anyway!"
Yes, Facebook is great. Now it's good to see how it goes in 3D, IRL, in real life what. When was his photograph for example.
"Do not forget you."
In addition, if we consistently put his desires above our own, afterwards, it is to him that we want to.
"Love, it does not" deserve "no."
Be loved has nothing to do with forcing yourself to be perfect, do everything well be the most beautiful and most lookée, and one that will satisfy all his desires. That's seduction, and even if it can be part of the game, it's not the same.
"A man can not guess what you in the head if you do not tell him!"
This is not because he loves us he becomes clairvoyant, that boy.
"A man who does not remember is not interested."
This does not mean that one is not interesting, just that it's a good indication that this is not with that one that is intended to form a couple.
"It's not because he does not remember it interesting!"
Desire is paradoxically that it attaches to what is refused and he can not have - that's why we publishes handbags in limited release, to express that n 'there is not for everyone. How come then called when we attach to what is there? Well, it's called love!
"If there is someone in his life and you anyone in mind, then forget it."
Because that's how we end up distracted despair alone at Christmas when he went skiing in the studio of the parents of his bride. And besides all the other nights when he leaves.
"Everybody has once tried to hypnotize her phone saying" Sonne, but sounds! ' "
And sent text messages "casually" to mean "the way how are you?", Thinking "I beg you tell me you love me," created a new account on the dating site to check that 'there was more, happened "by chance" for the seventeenth time in front of his ... All this is a sign that things are not being done, but it takes time to understand it. Dumb ? No, just normal. It's like starting up falling on the buttocks when learning to walk.
"Think of watching the nice men."
Although it is radically opposed to their choice of socks.
"To love is to take risks."
This is the case when it opens to the presence of another in his life. No one can guarantee zero pain, zero misfortune. But there are loving that ensures the happiness of loving. l
Tips for living well with yourself ...
"The future is not now, live in the moment."
Sometimes it is very premature to imagine how we dress will go up to the altar just have had a great night together is already great!
"Spend time with your friends."
In the first fires of love, we tend to forget them. But keep a friendship, it's good for them, for us and for the couple.
"Never a failure always a lesson."
Without going to be the tattooed under the collarbone like Rihanna, this is a constructive way to think of a love story when she had a rather painful way to finish. History not to repeat the same mistake.
"Do not expect a man he fills the void in your life. That's for you to do it. "
Our life is up to us to deal with them: find what you love to do
"If you give an ultimatum, it must be able to keep you there."
Because otherwise, it's just a story to discredit.
"Do not forgive anything."
Would not that out of respect for oneself.
"If you have something on the heart, tell him right away."
Calmly if possible, but even if we ruffle a bit, it will leave fewer traces that say nothing, cash and necessarily accumulate resentment.
"Never rule your public statements."
Knowing that his mother, the cashier, friends and children, it's public. Yes, sometimes it's very, very hard. But it can be done!
"Enjoy!"
There will be time to move on if you're wrong.
Tips for living well ... in bed
"We do not care to sleep the first night or not. But it's so delicious to prolong the wait ... "
And let woo also, admittedly.
"If he does not respect you enough to wear a condom, then forget it."
If a man does not immediately ensures the protection of his partner, then what will it be afterwards!
"Sex is important."
No, it is not very serious when occasionally it does not work. But over time? It's another matter.
"A man can not guess what you like in bed if you do not tell him!"
And as women can be different, which pleased his former does not necessarily send us over the moon. And reciprocally.
